Books Read – June 2024

Two interesting book-related links to share first –

This article: “The Joy of Reading Books You Don’t Entirely Understand.” The author makes a case for reading deeply and challenging yourself. For not letting a difficult book, or a book in which you have no context intimidate you into not reading it. I makes me think about how Engie writes in her book recaps about things she’s had to look up. I think there are two things, though – there are books that are set in a world that I know nothing about, and then there are books where I feel like I ought to understand what is happening, but for reasons of writing or plot or what not (or even my own headspace at the time), I just can’t wrap my head around what is going on. I just quit an audiobook last week that I couldn’t make heads or tails out of. I couldn’t tell where the story was going or what it was doing. Am I missing out by abandoning this book? Am I under-estimating the joy I could have from just reading as a meditative exercise? Though, when I want that kind of immersive, dense kind of reading experience, I turn to poetry. Reading a book I don’t understand has not yet gotten me to a nirvana state yet. What am I missing here?

The New York Times released a list of “Best” books of the 21st Century. It’s an interesting endeavor. Of course it’s completely subjective and leans heavily towards books originally written in the English language, and what I think of as “prestige” reading. There is a distinct lack of genre fiction. Of the 100, I’ve only read 11. There are several books on the list that I would be interested in reading, mostly the non-fiction choices. But honestly there are a lot of books that I’m not interested in reading. Life is too short, you know… And reading is such a subjective thing. Reading through the list, I had a few thoughts –
– there is something that takes all the joy out of reading when it is turned into a competitive sport – check the boxes for the books you’ve read!!! I don’t want to feel bad about not reading something on the list, but there is a sense of “Oh, I’m not well-read…”
-The part that I found the most fascinating was the individual author’s list of their top 10 picks. Sarah MacLean has a list!
-Maybe I’m not the target audience for a list like this. There are a lot of books I enjoyed reading more than My Brilliant Friend. But then, I go back to the article I mentioned at the top of this post – Was I expecting to understand more of the book than I needed to?
-As always, the comment section is gold. Tons more book recs to be found there.
-I’ve probably spent more time reading about this list of 100 books than I have actually reading a book this past 24 hours.

Anyhow – on to the books I read in June. A lighter month. Not quite sure why.

Frozen River by Ariel Lawhon – Historical novel about a midwife in revolutionary war Maine. I enjoyed reading this book- the protagonist, Martha Ballard, was a pretty great character and really liked the relationship with her husband and children all the details of her life as a midwife. The author’s notes at the end were fascinating. In my head, though, I kept comparing it to another book I read years ago – Hearts and Bones by Margaret Lawrence – also about a mid-wife in eighteenth century Maine solving a mystery. I LOVED Heart and Bones. If you find a copy, you should read it. It’s a very different book from Frozen River – the story is a lot darker, the ending not as satisfying, but in a good way. The writing… the writing is SO GOOD, a little dense, but the kind of book that completely transported me. I need to find a copy of Hearts and Bones and re-read it. But -okay I was talking originally about Frozen River – I thought it was a pretty good historical mystery novel, though I felt like the “mystery” was maybe the weakest part of the story and the plot veered towards “woman in peril” thriller at the end. Everything up until that part, though, I really liked.

The Comeback by Lily Chu, read by Philippa Soo – This book, about a woman who inadvertently starts dating a K-pop star, was the 12 year old and my Mother-daughter book club book – we listened to it together when running errands or hanging out. We both really liked this book, and laughed quite a bit. I’ve read/listened to all three of Chu’s books, and while they get billed as romance novels, I’m here for the strong women, their friendships, and the voyage of self discovery. The romantic interests are always dreamy and cute, but also kind of… rote. I think The Stand In is still my favorite of the three, but this one was great too. And I’ve been listening to some K-pop to go along with this book, which is a genre I know nothing about. “It’s like American pop songs, but I can’t understand the words they are singing,” I said to the 12 year old. “Yeah…” she replied in that, “I know, isn’t it great?!?” Kind of tone.

Wash Day Diaries by Jamila Rowser and Robyn Smith – Mid month, when I was kind of in a reading slump, I borrowed a bunch of graphic novels, and Wash Day Diaries was one of them. This book features five interconnected stories about a group of friends in the Bronx who go about the ordinary business and ordinary drama of their days. It’s nice to see a book centered on strong female friendships. Also – as someone with pretty low maintenance hair, seeing hair washing as a ritual event, was really fascinating. (Side note – I was reading about graphic novels in audio form and decided to listen to a sample of one – it was kind of like listening to a radio play. When I’m done my current audiobook, I might explore a graphic novel on audio.)

My Name is Lucy Barton by Elizabeth Strout – I picked up this book from a Little Free Library a while ago, and it has just been languishing on my bookshelf. When I did a huge re-organization of the bookshelf a while back I pulled this as one to read since it was a slim volume and I thought I could read it quickly. I did not read it quickly – not through any fault of the book, but I just kept misplacing the book and then it would fall off my radar for a while. I thought this book was really well written, but – you know that thing where you read a book blurb, but don’t really read it quite correctly, and then the book ends up not being what you were lead to believe? I, for some reason, thought Lucy Barton was 90 years old on her death bed and I spend the first little bit thinking that her mother was a ghost. And as I read further, it quickly became clear that that wasn’t what was going on. So then I spent the rest of the book feeling a little lost. Anyhow, there are a lot of sad things in this book. A lot of beautifully written realizations in this book. But it was such an internal book, I didn’t get a sense of who Lucy really was – she spends so much time talking about the past that I didn’t know who present day Lucy was. And maybe that’s the point? That we can’t encapsulate who we are, that we contain many facets, even to ourselves? I finished the book feeling like there must be more in Lucy’s story.

Landslide by Susan Conley – I read this book while in Maine, one of the suggestions from a Maine reading list. This novel is about a documentary filmmaker living on the coast of Maine, and how her life with her two teenage sons is upended when her fisherman husband is involved in an accident while fishing off the coast of Nova Scotia. I really loved this book, and how the struggles and joys of living in a community with a dying industry figure prominently. Reading this book as we drove up the coast of Maine, really made me think about how these coastal towns are having a hard time surviving, yet how the people who live there have such a strong sense of place. I love how Conley also writes about the ironies and triumphs and angst and confusion that comes with raising teenagers, particularly teenage boys. I knew I wanted to read more of this book, when I read this on the very first page:
I tell myself it’s a beautiful face. It’s important to tell myself that many things about teenage boys are beautiful so I don’t panic.
or this:
“I’m trying to adhere to the say-very-little strategy, but when Sam [oldest son] gets to me I can’t help myself.”

Or this:

“I’ve started keeping a running list in my mind of things I need to do for the wolves[her sons] On bad days I call this the List of Resent ments. I try not to think about the list. But my brain would have worked differently without the boys. I think it would have stayed more open, and that I would be making more films and not a List of Resentments.”


It’s not all about the narrator’s feelings on the complexities of motherhood, though. This book is just felt real and honest about the good and bad things in life, and how hard it is to hold yourself together and be an adult when life isn’t going very well.

On my proverbial Night Stand. I am 3/4 of the way through many books, and barely into a few others. I don’t know how I got to the point of having so many books going at once. Hopefully we’ll finish them in July?

The Brontes: Wild Genius on the Moors: – I haven’t made much progress in this book this month. Charlotte is dead, a biography has been commissioned, but there is some drama with that.

Night of the Living Rez by Morgan Tatly- Another book from the Maine reading list – this one is a group of short stories centering around two men who live on the same reservation. Tatly has a new book out and I want to finish this book before I pick up his new one.

Blankets by Craig Thompson – graphic novel memoir about Thompson’s childhood and young adulthood as he grapples with the conflict between his first relationship and his faith. I had left this book out and both the 12 year old and the 7 year old started reading it because, you know, it’s got pictures! Must be appropriate. It was for sure not 100% appropriate for the 7 year old.

Adventures of Amina al-Sirafi by Shannon Chakraborty – Middle aged female pirate on one last mission. I had started this, got sucked in, then had to return it to the library and it took months for it to come off the Libby holds list. BUT I then found it on Hoopla, where everything is always available immediately. So now I can jump right back in. Can’t wait to see how things turnout.

Drive Your Plow Over the Bones of the Dead by Olga Tokarczuk – Picked this up from a Little Free Library – it’s my current poolside read because I actually own this book so I don’t have to worry about library fine in case it accidentally drops in the water.

Life is Hard by Kieran Setiya – Still plugging away at this. I’m on the chapter on Injustice. The last chapter was on Failure.

The Trumpet of the Swan by E.B. White – read aloud to the kids at bedtime

The Turnout by Megan Abbott – Thriller set in the world of a ballet studio during Nutcracker season.

What have you read lately? Do you ever read books you don’t understand?

17 thoughts on “Books Read – June 2024”

  1. I really enjoyed The Comeback and think I have Frozen River on a hold at the library? I know I’ve seen it circulating around a lot of lists.

    My Name is Lucy Barton. Ahhh, I loved it. It was so hard to read, but it really gripped me. Then I read more Elizabeth Strout and I just found them so formulaic and depressing. I wish I had stopped with just the one book. But I think it’s a very polarizing book. You’re either going to love it or hate it, and I just found it so raw and masterfully written that I loved it.

    1. I did like the writing, so maybe I’ll read another book by Strout? I hear Olive Kitteridge is really good as well – that was another book on the Maine reading list I was looking at.

  2. I’m in the midst of reading a book I don’t really understand, and am sticking with it but not really enjoying it. I’m reading Hard Times by Charles Dickens, and there are cockney accents and out of date language, lots of slang and jargon, and half of the time I don’t know what he’s saying or means. And I am too lazy to look things up or think about it more deeply, because I’m reading it in bed before I go to sleep. So I read a paragraph or two, go, ‘huh?’, roll over, and go to sleep. Not ideal.

    I love Lucy Barton. Unlike Elisabeth, I really enjoy all of her books. I first read Anything is Possible, which is about the town that Lucy is from, and she is not the main character. Then I read My Name is Lucy Barton, then Oh William! And Lucy By the Sea. All really good, all internal, and hmmm…maybe Elisabeth is right and My Name is the best. But I’m not sorry I read them all. I wasn’t as fond of Olive Kitterage.

    1. I’ve liked the Dickens that I’ve read, but I do find that I can’t think too hard about it or I’m really not going to understand everything that goes on. When I do finally understand the plot, it’s like a light bulb.
      I think it’s that really internal structure that I didn’t really click with in Lucy Barton.

  3. I spent way too long just now looking at that list of books from the NYT. I have read nineteen of them and DNFed three. That seems like a pretty good number, right? I can call myself well-read? I mean, I DO call myself well-read, so I guess it doesn’t matter about this random list, does it? (It does matter, of course. I can see myself desperately attempting to read all these books.)

    So I read a lot of books where I am completely lost for huge chunks of it, particularly because I read a fair amount of sci-fi/fantasy where the world building can be moderately insane making. It really depends on how much I want to read a book how much effort I’ll put into something that seems nonsensical at the time. A lot of my DNFs are because I simply lose patience with all of it.

    1. I think you are very well-read! I feel like if you just read the books on this list, then you would actually be less well-read because there are entire genres that you haven’t read. It’s like when people make lists of “best movies” and I’m like, “Where is ‘While You Were Sleeping’?”

  4. Lucy Barton is one of my all-time favourite books by one of my favourite authors! I love the whole series. It’s SO my kind of book, but not for everyone.
    I saw that 100 best books, and I have read about 18 of them. I don’t know, I think these lists are not reflective of books that *I* think are the best, but then again, there were a few on there that I really, really love. Books are so subjective!

    1. I agree – it’s so subjective “Best Books” I feel like you read so many books that your 100 list is probably very different from the NYTimes list.

  5. You perfectly articulated reading as sometimes being a “competitive sport.” I want to live more by a mantra: “wanna read? pick up a book and read.” I think I saw that article and decided not to open it for fear that it’ll make me inadequate lol

    1. Gah! I’m so conflicted about the list! It’s so subjective, but I do get a little thrill when I’ve read something on it.

  6. I’ve read Lucy Barton, and I actually liked Olive Kitteridge better! I think you will enjoy it. I DNF’d Frozen River because of the writing, so I was excited to see that you’ve recommended an alternative with wonderful writing.

    I read for enjoyment, to learn things, and for escape, so if something is really a slog, even if it’s an “important” book, I put it down. Life is too short to make myself suffer through things I don’t want to read!

    1. MCPL didn’t have Hearts and Bones, but I found it (and the sequel) through the DC Library system!

  7. I honestly gave the NYT list quite a bit of side eye. It was kind of ‘hoity tooth’ IMO. I have read 27 and let me tell you – a lot of those 27 were a SLOG. I can’t be never Homegoing was not on the list. That is the best book of this century so far in my view. But that’s the thing – best book lists are so subjective. I like that the list invites conversations about books. But I don’t agree with many of the books that made the list nor did I start a list of books I wanted to read.

    I just finished ‘Wandering Souls’ and I would love to know how this book ended up on my hold list at the library. It is a slim novel at just over 200 pages and it’s a debut. It’s about a family of Vietnamese refugees that are leaving the country during the war. We know in the first chapter that only the 3 teen siblings make it to Hong Kong. It is a heartbreaking tale of the life of the refugee. The author sprinkles in sort of vignettes from different points of view, including one of the deceased siblings. It was brilliant. 5 stars!!

    1. Wandering Souls sounds really good. I’m adding it to my list now. Also Homegoing is on my list too.
      I do think that the list of readers’ favorite more matches books that I might enjoy. I mean how did something as seminal as Harry Potter not make the NYTimes list?

  8. I still need to look at that NYT list – I think I might write a blog post about it so I’m holding off until I have the time to do that.

    I do like books that challenge me in the way I think – I try to read a lot of social justice books that can sometimes be very dense but give me lots of good information to consider. And sometimes they make me take a step back and look at the ways I may be complicit in racism/social justice movements/etc, which is not very fun but important work.

  9. I loved frozen river. May be in my top 3 this year. But I was expecting historical fiction and not really a mystery so I was fine with that,
    Lucy Barton comes up every once in a while and I may have to check it out.
    I put Adventures of Amina al-Sirafi on my TBR. Sounds like a book I could love. Thanks for the recommendation.

    1. I just finished The Adventures of Amina al-Sirafi, and it was a lot of fun. I don’t usually read fantasy/adventure books, so this was a nice change of pace for me.

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