
After leaving readers on a bit of a cliffhanger last week when I posted from the waiting room of Urgent Care, I’m sure everyone was eager for the verdict. drumroll please…. the result of tests was…. Influenza B. I fully admit that I did not get a flu shot this year, so maybe I’m to blame, but…. the 14 year old also got diagnosed with influenza over the weekend, and she did get a flu shot – which she is a little salty about. But I hear that it’s been a particularly bad year for Influenza B. Well, I guess it’s been a good year for influenza, but a bad year for the rest of us who get it…
All that to say, all last week I was in a cycle of debilitating tiredness, taking the kids to school, coming home and sleeping all day, then feeling better mid afternoon and going to work in the evening. Then coming home, going to bed, and feeling like crap again in the morning and the cycle began again. I am the worst patient. Luckily I had Thursday and Friday off work and was able to fully rest. I did drag myself out of bed for a ninety minute meeting on Teams on Thursday, but otherwise stayed under the covers. I cancelled Happy Hour plans I had, and I cancelled plans to meet up at the trampoline park with my friends when the kids were off school. Which was a bummer, but rest and hydration seemed to be the priorities of the day.
I don’t remember the last time I was laid up for so many days, and it’s made me feel like the month has disappeared. Between tech week (twice! for two different shows) and a sick week, I blinked and woosh… next week will be April. I feel like before I got sick or went into tech, we were still deeply in winter. And now I’ve emerged and there are blossoms on trees and the hyacinths are blooming and fragrant along our front walk. Oh well. I do believe my body likes to tell me when I need to slow down and it was clearly telling me that I needed to slow down now.
On top of rest and water, there are a few things that got me through last week. These are my sick week MVPs:
-Hot Lemonade. When I’m sick I like having hot liquids. This is one of my favorite things to drink- lemon juice mixed with hot water and a drizzle of honey stirred in. The tart lemon is bracing and helps clear the gunk from my throat, the touch of honey helps things go down.
-Ruby Red Grapefruit Juice. My cold drink of choice when I’m sick. Like hot lemonade, it balances tart and sweet.
-Cool green grapes. I don’t have much of an appetite when I’m sick, but I did eat a lot of green grapes, their chilled flesh soothing my throat as I swallowed. I had bought some enormous grapes from Hmart the week before and they were perfect for a sick day. I swear each grape was the size of a marble shooter.
-Kleenex.
-Musical Cast Albums. I’m not the kind of person that can sleep for 48 hours straight. At some point I’ll move into that “tired but not sleepy” phase and then I’ll start feeling restless and bored. This is the danger zone for me. When I get restless and bored, I will get out of bed and look for things to do, and that will tire me out and I’ll be back at square one. So the trick is finding low key ways to help me through restless and bored. I know some people like to watch movies when they are sick, but I have such bad eye-sight that I would need to keep my glasses on to watch movies. When I’m sick, I like to leave my glasses off, so watching movies isn’t an option. So instead of watching movies, I listen to Broadway musicals as a low spoons way to rest without being too bored. This time around I listened to Side Show, Bridges of Madison County, and Caroline or Change, all of which were new to me.
-Audiobooks. Similar to listening to musicals, I like audiobooks when I’m sick because I can be slightly entertained while laying in bed. This time around I listening to the Alexis Hall novel Looking For Group. To be honest, I didn’t pay that much attention to the story – it was centered around Drew, who spends his time playing MMORPG – which for those who, like me, don’t know what that is, it stands for “Massively Multi-player Online Role Playing Game.” The book starts with a glossary of terms and I was immediately lost. I liked the witty sentences, I liked the snarky and funny characters. I loved Will Watt’s low dulcet oh so expressive tones. I could not tell you what happened in the book.
-Hot water bottle. I have an old fashioned rubber hot water bottle, purchased in a thrift store of a Colorado mountain town for $2. It keeps my bed warm and I love it.
-Cozy blankets. I love nothing more than being buried under a pile of blankets.
-The hot water boiler. Still my favorite purchase so far this year. Hot water at the push of a button.
-The Husband. Okay, he is the REAL MVP of my sick week. The Husband kept things running. He cooked dinner. He cleaned up after dinner. He took the kids to see the high school production of In the Heights (I’m sorry I missed that one – they all reported it was very very good.) He kept an eye on them when they were off school and I couldn’t get out of bed. He watched the first games of March Madness with them. He took the little kids to skating lessons, and then on a bike ride. He took the oldest kid to the doctor’s. He picked up my prescription. He gardened. He folded laundry. He got the kids to fold laundry. I mean the list goes on and on and on. Last week Stephany had a post where she pondered how people recover from sickness with kids around. Well, my answer is… I don’t, and I’m very grateful for the Husband that I don’t have to.
Anyhow, I’m slowly feeling more normal again. I’ve been able to go outside for some walks and enjoy the spring sunshine. I did a couple 15-20 minute gentle yoga videos. I took a hot shower. It’s funny how those things – sunshine, stretching, and showers – can all help me feel like a human after being sick. I wouldn’t say I’m 100% back to normal now, but I’m mostly there.
I usually write my weekly gratitude list at this point in the post, but all my weekly gratitudes this week would be all the sick week MVPs that I listed above, so check!
Looking Forward To:
-Peak bloom! Peak bloom! Peak Bloom! Peak Cherry Blossom Bloom is right around the corner. We are currently in stage 5 of 6. The earliest prediction is for peak bloom to arrive this weekend. Next week is Spring Break, so I think the kids and I will go downtown to walk among the cherry blossoms one day.
– Middle School STEM Night. The 14 year old and her friend did an experiment that involved baking lots of cup cakes. I’ve never been to STEM Night before, so I figured this might be a good year to go.
-March Madness has begun. We look forward to watching the Men’s and Women’s games. I’m not rooting for any particular team this year – neither team from the Husband’s alma mater made the bracket and the women’s team from my alma mater was, but they didn’t make it past the first round. In general, I like to root for whomever is losing because I love a good come from behind story.
-Spring soccer season for the 9 year old.
– Doing normal things like cooking dinner and picking up my bedroom. I’ve really missed doing these domestic things while I was sick. Not sure why. I hate picking up my bedroom normally but now I can’t wait to do it.
-Just started this book:

It’s an Age of Innocence re-telling set in present day Jewish society in London. I was inspired to pick it up because I’d never seen an Age of Innocence re-telling and given that I had just read the Wharton novel for Cool Blogger’s Book Club, it was fresh on my mind.
Also – side note, when I went to google for this book, another book with the same titles popped up. That book is about two orphans isolated in a Newfoundland cove. That one also sounds really interesting. I love the idea of reading two books with the same title.
What We Ate: Damned if I know. I think there was freezer soup one night. Pizza on Friday as always. The rest – I have no clue. The family was fed and that’s all that matters.
Well, that’s it for now. This week looks bright and sunny. I close another show on Sunday and then there’s Spring Break. We aren’t going anywhere, but we’ll have some local adventures, and maybe just some time to rest. And finish my taxes. And have some ham for Easter. I need to think about Easter menu. I see everyone having amazing travel adventures, and I have to be honest I do feel a little jealous. We don’t have any travel plans in the future. I think after a big travel year last year (Taiwan/Malaysia, South Africa, and Taiwan again), the idea of getting on a plane again seemed… like a lot. So we’ll be here for Spring Break – and, you know what, that’s not terrible. I’m going to lean into having some good family time with my kids while they are off school and before I plunge back into another busy season at work.













